Monday, April 06, 2009

Lelaki VS Perempuan

Persoalan yang ingin dikemukakan di sini adalah, Adakah salah untuk perempuan memulakan langkah pertama dalam ingin menambat hati seorang lelaki? Haa.. Ni lah selalu yang perempuan pertikaikan. Aku telah berdebat dengan sekumpulan perempuan yang menyokong dan menegakkan sepanduk "Perempuan tak boleh make the first move dahulu" Mereka beranggapan bahawa lelaki kena start dahulu. Atas alasan, lelaki perlu jadi gentleman. C'mon la. Gentleman is just subjective. It can be in any ways. Bukan takat nak goda perempuan saja okay. Gentleman boleh dicontohkan dengan mendahului kaum hawa ketika ingin makan malam atau pun berjumpa dengan ahli keluarga di pihak perempuan.

Ni pada pandangan aku je la kan. Aku suka perempuan yang boleh make the first move. Damn cute okay. So, dengan memulakannya, boleh nampak la peratus kesungguhan seseorang itu dalam ingin memulakan suatu perhubungan. Betulkan aku kalau aku salah ya. Tapi aku rasa aku betul.

  • Perempuan yang meminta nombor telefon lelaki diaggap gedik
C'mon la wahai perempuan. Tiada siapa pun yang mengatakan kau gedik kalau meminta nombor telefon seseorang. Tak salah untuk berkenalan bukan? Peranjingkan sesiapa yang mengatakan kau gedik. Bukannya nombor dia kau minta. Kalau aku, selagi kau tidak menjengkelkan, aku bagi. Apa salahnya. Masalahnya, kau tidak pernah mencuba. Takut direject? Secara basicnya, tidak semua usaha kita, outputnya akan 100% berjaya. Sekali-sekala gagal. Adat kehidupan lah. Ada kala naik ada kala turun. Nak naik setiap masa payah la kan. Cuba dahulu. Baru kau tahu okay?

  • Perempuan enggan memulakan Perbulan sistem pesanan ringkas
Alahai. Cukuplah sekadar 'hye' 'hello' atau smiley sahaja. Tak salah. Mungkin si lelaki tidak membalas kerana tiada masa atau sibuk. Mana tahu kan? Tapi kau yang fikir bukan-bukan. Fikir yang kau gedik terhegeh-hegeh lah apa lah. Tolong jangan berfikiran kolot ya? 

Apa lagi alasan yang kau kaum hawa ada bagi menolak ini statement? Peralihan zaman? Peralihan zaman langsung tiada kena mengena dalam hal ini. Memang betul zaman dulu lain sekarang lain. Dahulu Nabi kita dilamar oleh Siti Khadijah. Senang bukan? Malah Siti Khadijah lebih berumur dari Baginda. Sekarang? Adakah perempuan perlu jual mahal? Takut market jatuh kerana memulakan langkah pertama? Market sangatkah kau? Hot sangatkah? Jangan lihat dibawah. Tengok orang diatas kau. Mungkin kau tidak jumpa lagi. Ada juga orang perempuan yang lebih berpengaruh dari kau gentle boleh memulakkannya dahulu. Kenapa tidak kau? Ikutlah kalau nak. Tanak, Pergi main jejauh. Tapi ingat, jangan kau menyesal jika sesuatu yang kau idamkan tidak kau dapat hasil daripada kebodohan kau sendiri. 

'Ultimate power cannot be given, it must be taken'

:)

11 comments:

  1. Hello :) first of all thank you for the comment you made on my latest entry . second of all, entry bawah ni, fatin tu my neighbour! haha.

    ok about this entry, erm im saying that lelaki should make the first move because i deem its their nature to do so. Tengok la at the beginning of everything, sperm swim towards the ovum. belum ada lagi ovum pegi berenang pegi sperm. lol. dalam banyak2 sperm yg berenang tu, 1 je yg melekat. kira mcm "the best man win" haha. so harap u faham the metaphor given by me ni :D hahaha

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  2. hurmm..
    what u're saying is true.
    but then again that girl has a point ;)

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  3. To Shamim Hashim :
    Sperm does it job brilliantly, and nature is the cause for everything. But yet its not wrong for a gurl to make the first move aite?

    haha. Thanx dude

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  4. To Hanniey :
    What point?haha XD

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  6. After all, this is a subjective issue. Diff ppl diff perception kan. maybe for you its cute, but for other ppl , they might think the other way round.? who knows.

    For me, girl that makes the first move is definitely a risk taker. You can't make a statement saying that girls who refuse to make the first move "bajet hot" or something like that. Its just that they are too afraid manatau will be left with humiliation if she got rejected? especially the ugly one. (selalu pretty girls tak kan kne reject pnyela, pitty the ugly one.. mana ada laki nak awek ugly kan??)

    Annnd lelaki tu pulak mesti mcm "bajet hot" ar nnti. pegi bagitau member dia sume cita "ade awek nak mintak couple ngan aku siot.. haha" bgtau sana sini.. kan? so siapa yang "bajet hot" skang? haha. Go figure!

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  7. To Shamim Hashim :
    Well, facinating points you got there.
    thank you ma'am :)

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  8. i particularly like this post
    cuz i'm sorta doing the same thing
    towards the guy i like.

    =]
    wish me luck.

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  9. To tygrisskisa :

    Good luck in what you're doing ma'am
    :)

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  10. updates:
    wished him happy birthday yesterday
    but he did not reply.

    i'm giving up on him.
    sedih gle,
    but never mind la kan.
    kena tahan.
    =[

    my chances with him are so very slight.
    i don't wanna hurt myself by continuing to hope.
    if my hopes soar too high i might crash really hard.
    kan?

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  11. To tygrisskisa :

    maybe he's out of credit or lost his phone perhaps. haha
    think positive dear.
    umm.. giving up is something that you should'nt do actually. why dont you just be friends with him first for a couple of years. you know, get to know each other first before you move on to the next step.

    yah,don't put high hope on him. better be friend first. you can't afford to lose him aite?once you declare and broke up,u might never see him again. but as a friend you can stay together although you lost contact with him.atleast you dont feel awckward when meeting him again
    :)

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